Meet Yourself


Self-love, understanding, and education are key elements in the development of every person, both spiritually and intellectually.

My name is Modesta Böhler, I am a certified life and business coach, a diversity trainer and a teacher of presence.

I empower you to build bridges between your spiritual values with the world of conscious business to integrate all aspects of your life. I guide clients to create visions of progress and set goals. I will show you how to use tools that will help you in the process of change.

I invite you to work with me on your development
– start your transformation today!


Self-love, understanding, and education are key elements in the development of every person, both spiritually and intellectually.

My name is Modesta Böhler, I am a certified life and business coach, a diversity trainer and a teacher of presence.

I empower you to build bridges between your spiritual values with the world of conscious business to integrate all aspects of your life. I guide clients to create visions of progress and set goals. I will show you how to use tools that will help you in the process of change.

I invite you to work with me on your development
– start your transformation today!

My Method

Conscious Self – Management (CSM), which I use in my coaching sessions, is the result of 15 years of professional work and consulting experience. This clear framework allows my clients to quickly understand the complexity of human action in different contexts, as well as the influence that spirituality has on us.
During a session with me, you will learn how to observe your own thoughts, recognize patterns and achieve inner peace. This peace is essential for introspection, making changes in life and starting new stages.

Conscious Self-Management is not only a method
– it is a way of life.

Life Coaching

#meet yourself

Have you ever wondered why, despite your immense commitment to work, family, education and social relationships, you still feel a kind of inadequacy? Even when you achieve more goals, you don’t experience the full joy of achieving them, and the feeling of satisfaction quickly passes. Searching for information about consciousness and human development, you try to improve your skills by reading how-to books, listening to audio books, attending various training courses, but there is still a part of you that remains unsatisfied. Maybe it’s time to take a closer look, get to know who you really are and discover the reasons for this insufficiency.

Take a breath, stop, sit down and talk. If you feel these words resonate with you, I invite you to reach out to me.

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#love yourself

What does it mean to love yourself? How can you love and accept yourself fully? How can you find inner peace despite the chaos around you? Being human is not only about focusing on oneself and one’s own needs, but also about being able to coexist in harmony with others and the environment. However, such global coexistence begins with the integration and acceptance of the individual.

As part of the #loveyourself session, we will look at the differences in the voice of the heart and the mind. Through deep reflection, exploration of your own beliefs and values, and practical self-recognition techniques, we will focus on understanding your needs and finding inner peace. In this session you will discover how to build authentic self-love. I will show you strategies for managing your energy and your own thoughts. These tools will help you independently free yourself from the inner dialogues that criticize you. Rediscover compassion and understanding towards yourself and wrap yourself in unconditional love. 

If you feel these words resonate with you, I invite you to reach out to me. 

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#and what about this life?

There are times in life when you feel that you are still stuck at the same point, and the way forward seems impossible. Questions arise all around you, to which you have no ready answers. Everything becomes overwhelming, beyond your capabilities. You may have made a key decision that seemed right, but now you lack the vision, the next steps. This makes you anxious and fearful of the unknown. All around you, you increasingly encounter the slogan of living “here and now” and wonder what it actually means.

During this session, I will help you rediscover your strengths, strengthening your ability to act and take steps in line with your vision and personality. Together, we’ll analyze why your previous actions didn’t work. I will explain to you what the “here and now” philosophy of life is and how to translate it into everyday life. I will teach you to recognize and eliminate the thoughts that limit your possibilities and deprive you of the joy of life.

What do you think? Are you ready for this journey of discovery?

If so, I invite you to our meeting here and now.

Executive Coaching

Conscious Management

  • We will analyze your management methods.
  • Together, we will create a personalized style that will strengthen you in your actions and support you in building credibility.
  • We will conduct a thorough review of your team’s dynamics and effectiveness, identifying key areas for development.
  • I will show you how to effectively set goals that are realistic, measurable, and aligned with the needs of both you and your team.

Team Communication

  • You will develop assertive communication skills, which are essential in professional interactions.
  • You will master techniques for handling difficult conversations with employees and learn how to provide constructive and motivating feedback.
  • You will discover how diversity within the team impacts its success and how you can implement it to achieve better results.

Life Balance

  • You will receive techniques for balancing professional and personal responsibilities, which is crucial for effective time management.
  • You will learn how to delegate tasks effectively.
  • You will find out which activities unnecessarily drain your energy and are misaligned with your energy levels.
  • You will introduce new rituals that will support you in achieving long-term improvements in your well-being and productivity.

Coaching

Life Coaching

#meet yourself

Have you ever wondered why, despite your immense commitment to work, family, education and social relationships, you still feel a kind of inadequacy? Even when you achieve more goals, you don’t experience the full joy of achieving them, and the feeling of satisfaction quickly passes. Searching for information about consciousness and human development, you try to improve your skills by reading how-to books, listening to audio books, attending various training courses, but there is still a part of you that remains unsatisfied. Maybe it’s time to take a closer look, get to know who you really are and discover the reasons for this insufficiency.

Take a breath, stop, sit down and talk. If you feel these words resonate with you, I invite you to reach out to me.

_________________

#love yourself

What does it mean to love yourself? How can you love and accept yourself fully? How can you find inner peace despite the chaos around you? Being human is not only about focusing on oneself and one’s own needs, but also about being able to coexist in harmony with others and the environment. However, such global coexistence begins with the integration and acceptance of the individual.

As part of the #loveyourself session, we will look at the differences in the voice of the heart and the mind. Through deep reflection, exploration of your own beliefs and values, and practical self-recognition techniques, we will focus on understanding your needs and finding inner peace. In this session you will discover how to build authentic self-love. I will show you strategies for managing your energy and your own thoughts. These tools will help you independently free yourself from the inner dialogues that criticize you. Rediscover compassion and understanding towards yourself and wrap yourself in unconditional love. 

If you feel these words resonate with you, I invite you to reach out to me. 

_________________

#and what about this life?

There are times in life when you feel that you are still stuck at the same point, and the way forward seems impossible. Questions arise all around you, to which you have no ready answers. Everything becomes overwhelming, beyond your capabilities. You may have made a key decision that seemed right, but now you lack the vision, the next steps. This makes you anxious and fearful of the unknown. All around you, you increasingly encounter the slogan of living “here and now” and wonder what it actually means.

During this session, I will help you rediscover your strengths, strengthening your ability to act and take steps in line with your vision and personality. Together, we’ll analyze why your previous actions didn’t work. I will explain to you what the “here and now” philosophy of life is and how to translate it into everyday life. I will teach you to recognize and eliminate the thoughts that limit your possibilities and deprive you of the joy of life.

What do you think? Are you ready for this journey of discovery?

If so, I invite you to our meeting here and now.

Executive Coaching

Conscious Management

  • We will analyze your management methods.
  • Together, we will create a personalized style that will strengthen you in your actions and support you in building credibility.
  • We will conduct a thorough review of your team’s dynamics and effectiveness, identifying key areas for development.
  • I will show you how to effectively set goals that are realistic, measurable, and aligned with the needs of both you and your team.

Team Communication

  • You will develop assertive communication skills, which are essential in professional interactions.
  • You will master techniques for handling difficult conversations with employees and learn how to provide constructive and motivating feedback.
  • You will discover how diversity within the team impacts its success and how you can implement it to achieve better results.

Life Balance

  • You will receive techniques for balancing professional and personal responsibilities, which is crucial for effective time management.
  • You will learn how to delegate tasks effectively.
  • You will find out which activities unnecessarily drain your energy and are misaligned with your energy levels.
  • You will introduce new rituals that will support you in achieving long-term improvements in your well-being and productivity.

My Educational Journey

  • Master of Advanced Studies ZFH in Supervision and Coaching in Organizations,
    Zurich University of Applied Sciences ZHAW – Switzerland

  • Teacher of Presence: The School of Awakening, Eckhart Tolle California – USA

  • Certified Life and Business Coach, Academy Susanne Weber Leadership, Coaching, Communication, Konstanz – Germany

  • Certified Teamcoach, Academy Susanne Weber Leadership, Coaching, Communication, Konstanz-Germany

  • Diversity Trainer, Living Diversity, Berlin – Germany
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  • Psychology Business Marketing, Starway Institute, Warsaw – Poland

  • The Work. Byron Katie Method – Vienna, Austria

  • Continuing Education Institute for Solution-focused Therapy and Counseling. “Hypnosystemic Therapy & Consulting”, PhD Gunther Schmidt, Director Milton-Erickson-Institute Heidelberg, Lenzburg – Switzerland

  • Bachelor Professional of Management for Industry, Chamber of Industry and Commerce Konstanz – Germany

Media

Geschäftsführer in Zürich

People crave authenticity

Interview conducted by Mark Seeholzer for "Geschäftsführer in Zürich"

Czwórka Polish Radio

How can understanding ego mechanisms positively affect our goals and performance in sports, and how can they harm us?

Interview conducted by Piotr Galus for "Czwórka Polskie Radio"

Geschäftsführer in Zürich

Achieve your desired goals with the right trainer

Interview conducted by Lone K. Halvorsen for "Geschäftsführer in Zürich"

FAQ

It depends on you. But I know from experience that often already during the second session it is possible to identify areas worth working on. Further results depend mainly on your commitment and willingness to translate the methods learned into everyday life.

This is a very individual issue. However, I encourage my clients to have a few meetings in quick succession at first, preferably once a week. Subsequent ones are usually to verify progress, possibly to resolve difficulties encountered, and then a meeting once a month or less often is sufficient – it depends on individual preference.

The initial interview is an integral part of the process, which also requires my time and commitment. Often during the first meeting, important conclusions and key elements regarding your personal development emerge.

Whether you choose therapy or coaching, both approaches are the first step toward a deeper understanding of yourself and knowing your needs. Follow your intuition and choose what attracts you most and resonates with you. A good therapist will know in which cases coaching will suffice, as well as a good coach will suggest participating in therapy if he or she feels it will be a better solution for his or her client.

I wouldn’t dare. Each of us is so different, has experienced different life situations and is in our own individual context (country, work, environment), I consider giving life advice unnecessary and ineffective. Who am I? Am I a master of life? :-). A coach is not an advisor. Nevertheless, from time to time I come across the question: what would you do in my place? 

 

Yes, I am a mother of a 10-year-old daughter. I have a dog and I have been married for 24 years :-). You can find more about me here.

Yes. I was raised in Poland and lived there for 17 years. I also lived in Germany for 8 years. Then I spent 15 years in Switzerland, 6 months in the UK, and now I live in the USA.